Saturday, March 7, 2015

the instituion of family



 The chapter I decided to write my second blog on  chapter 18 because it discusses family and that family is a social institution of cooperative groups to oversee the bearing and raising of children. The reason I want to write on family and the different types of families is because I am a huge family person and my family means the world to me along with the people who are not blood but can be considered kinship relationships.

                In my life I have been part of a Kinship relationship because my dad had remarried and I then had a step sister and step brother. Though we were not blood we were related through marriage.  I would also say I have experienced kinship relations through adoption, although I was not adopted my mother was, even though she was adopted my mother has looked at her parents as if they were here very own. I as well, look at my grandparents as if they are blood related because they have been there since day one.

                Although my family is very small because it’s my two brothers, sister, mom and dad we have my mom’s best friends who I’ve grown up with and consider my aunts or my dad’s friends who I consider my uncle. So even though I don’t have a huge family through blood I most certainly have it through the bonds I have and cherish with others. My babysitter Janine is now like a sister to me, she babysat me and my sister when we were 6 to about 13 years old and then just watched us grow and now that we are like 10 years apart not only is she looked at as a sister but she is also my friend.
 

                Since I am blogging about family I just wanted to take the time and mention about my two nephews and niece. They mean the absolute world to me, as if they were my own. I love being an aunt and spending all my free time with them, I most certainly love spoiling them and watching them grow up. My brother and sister-in-law would be an example of a nuclear family, although it mentions in the book and in our notes that it is a predominate family form composed of 1 or 2 parents and their children. My brother and sister-in-law decided they weren’t going to have any more children.

                It was taught in class about the different marriage patterns involving endogamy which is marriage between people of the same social category. Exogamy marriage between people of different social categories and monogamy which is marriage units two couples. I would have to say my parents are definitely exogamy because they are the complete opposite, my mom is the authoritative one while my dad is the indulgent one. Completely different social classes not only how they are as a person but definitely in their social class as well. With them being so different from each other, I feel as if I am a perfect combination of both of them. I have my morals, values, political views and religious from my mother and my loud outgoing personality from my dad.
 
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